Tuesday, September 15, 2015

Inspiration by Philosophers & Achievers

Steve Jobs - Apple



“Follow your intuition and curiosity... 
Trust your heart even when it leads you off the well-worn path...
You have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future...
The only way to do great work is to love what you do.
If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking.  
Don’t settle.
As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it... 
Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. 
They somehow already know what you truly want to become.
Everything else is secondary.”

Nelson Mandela




Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate,

Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented fabulous?

Actually, who are you not to be?

You are a child of God.

Your playing small does not serve the world. (this line inspired me to STEP UP)

There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.

We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.

It is not just in some of us, it is in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically, liberates others.

This poem is from the book the Course of Miracles written by Marianne Williamson.


Monday, September 7, 2015

Finetuning My Intention

Everyday is a new opportunity to continue to claim your purposeful intention for yourself in your life. That means, constant letting go what doesn't serve and support you and replacing it with something new and exciting and meaningful which automatically enthuses zest and energy into your life!!

First I started setting goals on a sheet of paper, lineal style in blue or black pen. They were great goals but didn't match my inner being.

Then I started doing treasure maps, using colour and pictures and words, and I LOVE those! They match my personality and a picture of my gorgeous Catalina yacht or photo of Machu Picchu makes my soul soar. :)

Now, I've discovered another way of creating intentions....and it's all to do with using the Law of Attraction's motto of 'feeling good' along with other strategies, like learning, growth, strategies etc, to align to your dreams and goals. And of course, mine is a movie, that's never been created before. So it's cutting edge creation and 'pushes all my buttons: mentally, physically, financially, emotionally and spiritually, as I create this huge and exciting goal.

Here's my latest intention for my success.


It mightn't look as pretty as the pictures, but it's in addition to the treasure maps. Why not give it a go for your goals and dreams?

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Tuesday, September 1, 2015

21 Reasons Keeping you in Difficult Relationships

There's lots of things that hold us back in our life and often it's FEAR. Your ego thinks of plenty of reasons to stop you in your tracks and halt you moving forward.

Part of that is that our uncomfortable comfort zone means you know what to expect, whereas your uncomfortable comfort zone of change leads you on an adventure, where you might encounter: Lions and tigers and rejection and hurt and white rabbits and moonbeams and gorillas and dinosaurs. Like Dorothy in the old famous movie "The Wizard of Oz"....it all depend which yellow brick road you follow.

So coping with difficult people, difficult relationship and/or bullies, wastes your time, energy and waking hours (even your sleeping hours) until you get it sorted, create yourself new boundaries with new words you learn, so you can move down your exciting yellow brick road to fun and more happiness.

Your mind embarks on a journey similar to this...and part way it gets stuck by an old belief or fear.

  1. Yes, I want to fix it
  2. Yes it hurts, bugs, annoys, frustrates me
  3. I want an easy, simple decision made for my answer to my problems
  4. I don’t want to do anything unpleasant
  5. I don’t want to hurt anyone
  6. I’d rather hurt myself than them
  7. I don’t value my own life or my own dream enough
  8. I’ve been taught to put others first
  9. What if people don’t like me
  10. I’ll put up with it, rather than cause waves
  11. But I really don’t like it
  12. But I really want to fix it
  13. I wonder how I can do it easily
  14. I know there is a programme that will teach me how
  15. Can I afford it
  16. What if someone finds out
  17. What will people think of me
  18. Will they think I’m weak…probably…but they DO now anyway
  19. Well, I’m going to show them I’m not
  20. I’m going to EMPOWER MYSELF
  21. I owe it to ME to ACHIEVE MY DREAM LIFE
And...this leads you on an exciting journey toward feeling fantastic about everything you include in your life.
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