tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18946447484539279412024-02-18T23:00:40.981-08:00Attitude Specialistattitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.comBlogger96125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1894644748453927941.post-43539580709059943232016-07-14T21:05:00.001-07:002016-07-14T21:05:49.947-07:00Success Attitude Show - Overcoming Your Fears<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/HaeMNqWQQK8" width="480"></iframe>attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1894644748453927941.post-20550556686080220082015-09-15T17:24:00.001-07:002015-09-15T17:24:28.350-07:00Inspiration by Philosophers & Achievers
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">“Follow
your intuition and curiosity...<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Trust
your heart even when it leads you off the well-worn path... <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">You
have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future...<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">The
only way to do great work is to love what you do. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">If
you haven’t found it yet, keep looking.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">
</span><span style="font-family: Arial;">Don’t
settle.<o:p></o:p></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">As
with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it...<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Have
the courage to follow your heart and intuition.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">They
somehow already know what you truly want to become.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Everything
else is secondary.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;"><o:p></o:p></span> </div>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: "Book Antiqua"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Arial Unicode MS"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">O</span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: "Book Antiqua"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Arial Unicode MS"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">ur deepest fear is not that we are
inadequate, </span></h4>
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<span lang="EN-AU">Our deepest
fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.</span></h4>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: "Book Antiqua"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Arial Unicode MS"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">It is our light, not our darkness that
most frightens us. </span></h4>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: "Book Antiqua"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Arial Unicode MS"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">We ask ourselves, who am I to be
brilliant, gorgeous, talented fabulous?</span></h4>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: "Book Antiqua"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Arial Unicode MS"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;"><strong>Actually, who are you not to be</strong>?</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: "Book Antiqua"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Arial Unicode MS"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">You are a child of God. </span></h4>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: "Book Antiqua"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Arial Unicode MS"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;"><em>Your playing small does not serve the
world. (this line inspired me to STEP UP)</em></span></h4>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: "Book Antiqua"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Arial Unicode MS"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">There
is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure
around you. </span></h4>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: "Book Antiqua"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Arial Unicode MS"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">We
were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. </span></h4>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: "Book Antiqua"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Arial Unicode MS"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">It
is not just in some of us, it is in everyone. </span></h4>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: "Book Antiqua"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Arial Unicode MS"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">And
as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to
do the same. </span></h4>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: "Book Antiqua"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Arial Unicode MS"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">As
we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically, liberates
others.</span> <o:p></o:p></span></span></h4>
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poem is from the book the Course of Miracles written by Marianne Williamson. <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1894644748453927941.post-68606875332045061412015-09-07T14:53:00.000-07:002015-09-07T14:53:04.478-07:00Finetuning My IntentionEveryday is a new opportunity to continue to claim your purposeful intention for yourself in your life. That means, constant <em>letting go</em> what doesn't serve and support you and <em>replacing </em>it with something new and exciting and meaningful which automatically enthuses zest and energy into your life!!<br />
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First I started setting goals on a sheet of paper, lineal style in blue or black pen. They were great goals but didn't match my inner being. <br />
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Then I started doing treasure maps, using colour and pictures and words, and I LOVE those! They match my personality and a picture of my gorgeous Catalina yacht or photo of Machu Picchu makes my soul soar. :)<br />
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Now, I've discovered another way of creating intentions....and it's all to do with using the Law of Attraction's motto of <em>'feeling good'</em> along with other strategies, like learning, growth, strategies etc, to align to your dreams and goals. And of course, mine is a movie, that's never been created before. So it's cutting edge creation and 'pushes all my buttons: mentally, physically, financially, emotionally and spiritually, as I create this huge and exciting goal. <br />
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Here's my latest intention for my success. <br />
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It mightn't look as pretty as the pictures, but it's in addition to the treasure maps. Why not give it a go for your goals and dreams?<br />
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attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1894644748453927941.post-9349979328709836502015-09-01T15:26:00.001-07:002015-09-01T15:26:45.887-07:0021 Reasons Keeping you in Difficult Relationships
There's lots of things that hold us back in our life and often it's FEAR. Your ego thinks of plenty of reasons to stop you in your tracks and halt you moving forward. <br />
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Part of that is that our uncomfortable comfort zone means you know what to expect, whereas your uncomfortable comfort zone of change leads you on an adventure, where you might encounter: Lions and tigers and rejection and hurt and white rabbits and moonbeams and gorillas and dinosaurs. Like Dorothy in the old famous movie "The Wizard of Oz"....it all depend which yellow brick road you follow. <br />
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So coping with difficult people, difficult relationship and/or bullies, wastes your time, energy and waking hours (even your sleeping hours) until you get it sorted, create yourself new boundaries with new words you learn, so you can move down your exciting yellow brick road to fun and more happiness. <br />
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Your mind embarks on a journey similar to this...and part way it gets stuck by an old belief or fear. <br />
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<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">Yes,
I want to fix it</li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">Yes
it hurts, bugs, annoys, frustrates me</li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">I
want an easy, simple decision made for my answer to my problems </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">I
don’t want to do anything unpleasant </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">I
don’t want to hurt anyone </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">I’d
rather hurt myself than them </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">I
don’t value my own life or my own dream enough </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">I’ve
been taught to put others first </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">What
if people don’t like me </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">I’ll
put up with it, rather than cause waves </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">But
I really don’t like it </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">But
I really want to fix it </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">I
wonder how I can do it easily </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">I
know there is a programme that will teach me how </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">Can
I afford it </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">What
if someone finds out </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">What
will people think of me </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">Will
they think I’m weak…probably…but they DO now anyway </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">Well,
I’m going to show them I’m not </li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;">I’m
going to EMPOWER MYSELF</li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-GB;">I owe it to ME to ACHIEVE MY DREAM LIFE<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1894644748453927941.post-7567094904129782842015-08-26T13:04:00.000-07:002015-08-26T13:04:17.207-07:00Emotions in your Relationships: Happy or Sad? If you want to feel good and be empowered in your relationships...you've got two choices. <br />
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1 Lock yourself in a cupboard so you can't interact with troublesome people <br />
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2 Only interact with people you like<br />
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3 Learn to interact better in all your relationships, so you feel good. That's called being "empowered". Being the person of power in your own life. <br />
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This list of emotions that you feel, indicate where you are relative to your relationships. The top seven emotions are great but if you experience the rest of the emotions, and you still want to have great relationships, you need to learn how to do this. The sooner you do, the better you will feel and the happier live you will lead. <br />
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<span style="color: white;">Joy/Appreciation/Empowered/Freedom/Love<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">Hopefulness<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">Contentment<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">Boredom<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">Pessimism<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">Frustration/Irritation/Impatience<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">11.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">Disappointment<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">13.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">Doubt<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">14.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">Blame<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">16.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">Discouragement<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">17.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">Anger<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">18.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">19.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">20.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;">21.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "Century Gothic"; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="color: white;">From the book “Ask and It is Given”, pg. 114<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Learn how to deal with difficult people and enjoy your life more. Email <a href="https://www.blogger.com/editor/static_files/goog_1336240946">janice</a><a href="https://www.blogger.com/null">@attitudespecialist.com</a> attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1894644748453927941.post-36889613273900656702015-08-21T22:05:00.001-07:002015-08-21T22:05:19.953-07:00Emotional Guidance in Your Relationships As youngsters generally we're not taught about our feelings and emotions, yet they are a vital clue as to whether we're on track creating success for ourselves. We know when we're feeling happy or sad, angry or hurt, disappointed or elated but what's the use of these feelings if we don't understand why we are experiencing them. <br />
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Basically, negative feelings mean our outer world does not make us happy....and the more unhappiness we're experiencing the more things we need to do, to make us happy. <br />
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With six areas of life to set goals in: You, Health, Relationships, Work, Finances, Spiritual/Community and our mind. body and soul guiding us...sometimes we've more changes to make than we can handle. However, if you decide what you want that will make you happy (soul decision) and change your thoughts (mind decision) then you take action which is a (body decision)<br />
you'll be feeling empowered in your life. <br />
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On this chart, (borrowed from Abraham and Ester Hicks), you can decide how you feel now and where you want to be. It doesn't matter which area of your life, but in this assessment and our topic of difficult people and relationships, decide where your emotions are relative to your relationship <br />
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<strong>Ask yourself these questions:</strong> <br />
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<li>How do I feel NOW about my relationship with the difficult people in my life?</li>
<li>What do I want to say/do which I can't do now?</li>
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Then ask yourself these questions:<br />
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<li>How would I like to feel in the FUTURE about relationships?</li>
<li>What do I need to learn to do?</li>
<li>What action am I willing to take to create win/win happy enjoyable relationships in my life?</li>
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Nelson Mandela used these words in a poem: <strong><em>Your playing small does not serve the world.</em></strong> <br />
I added a few more words to that quote....<strong><em>And it doesn't serve me either.</em></strong><br />
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So, if you want those great relationships, you need to learn (like I did) how to create them. <br />
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Email Janice for any questions or 12 Month Membership Information. <a href="mailto:janice@attitudespecialist.co.nz" target="_blank">Click Here</a> attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1894644748453927941.post-40078057495516380782015-08-08T16:58:00.000-07:002015-08-08T16:58:25.607-07:00Creating New Boundaries in Your Relationships Some people have said <em>'it's selfish'</em> when you don't look after them...or stop looking after them and doing things they want you to do for them. This isn't true....when you are looking after your own needs first and their needs second. <br />
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In fact, they are being selfish when they want you to look after them before you look after yourself. They are wearing two hats. I want you to look after me (<em>I'm being selfish</em>) but when you want to look after you (<em>You are being selfish</em>). It is their needs which are met in both situations whilst yours are not. It's what is called a win/lose relationship...Win for them and Lose for you!!If not now, eventually this leaves you feeling not ok!<br />
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If you're not healthy and happy, you are not doing a good job of living your life. When you are making them happy and healthy as your foremost goal, you will become increasingly unhappy and eventually resentful. <br />
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Here's an overview with EITHER and OR situations:<br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><u><span style="color: green; font-size: 16pt;">in Difficult
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<span style="color: blue;">YOU<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> IN A Difficult Relationship Situation<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><o:p></o:p></i></b></span></div>
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<span style="color: red;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">CHOICE 1<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 5;"> </span><span style="color: red;">CHOICE 2</span>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><u>Living life Now </u><span style="mso-tab-count: 5;"> </span><u>Living Life Tomorrow </u><span style="mso-tab-count: 2;"> </span><u><o:p></o:p></u></b></div>
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<strong><u>Not Empowered</u><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">L</span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> <u>OR</u></span></i></strong><span style="mso-tab-count: 2;"><u> </u> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><u>Empowered </u></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><u><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></span></u><o:p></o:p></i></b></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Saying Yes to others/No
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Unhappy Feeling/Not OK<span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">L</span></span><span style="mso-tab-count: 5;"> <u>OR</u> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Happy feeling/OK</b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></span><o:p></o:p></i></b></div>
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Old boundaries <span style="mso-tab-count: 6;"> <u>OR </u> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">New boundaries</b></div>
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(Unhappy & Your Past)<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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Doing things you don’t want <span style="mso-tab-count: 4;"><u>OR</u> M</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">aking you happy</b></div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>(Feel used)<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">L</span></span><span style="mso-tab-count: 6;"> <u>OR</u> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">(Feel
in control of you)</i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></span><o:p></o:p></i></b></div>
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Being abused by someone <span style="mso-tab-count: 5;"> <u>OR </u> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Creating new boundaries<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><o:p></o:p></i></b></div>
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(Feel abused)<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">L</span></span><span style="mso-tab-count: 6;"> <u> OR</u> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Feel
happy)</i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></span></i></b></div>
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(Feel undeserving)<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">L</span></span>
<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> <u>OR</u> (</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Feel
worthy & successful) </i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></span> <o:p></o:p></i></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 2;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> <u> </u></span><span style="color: blue;"><u>YOU DECIDING WHICH
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LOSE/LOSE RELATIONSHIP <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">L</span></span></i><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><span style="mso-tab-count: 3;"><u><strong>OR</strong></u> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">WIN/WIN </b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">L</span></span></i><span style="mso-tab-count: 3;"> </span><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><o:p></o:p></i></b></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">DON’T CREATE DREAMS <span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span></i><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">L</span></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 4;"> <u>OR</u> </span>CREATE
YOUR DREAMS </b></i><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></span></i></b></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">DON’T CREATE SUCCESS<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span></i><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">L</span></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 4;"> <u>OR</u> </span>CREATE
YOUR SUCCESS</b></i><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></span></i></b></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">UNDERACHIEVE IN LIFE </i><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">L</span></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 5;"> <u>OR </u> ACHIEVE </span></b></i><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></span><span style="mso-tab-count: 3;"> </span><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span></i></b></div>
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You will see that Choice 1 which is maybe where you are right now, will never bring you the happiness and success across all areas of your life, until you start to set new boundaries for yourself. <br />
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It's one step at a time...but as the quote goes: <em>When the student is ready, the teacher appears.</em><br />
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I Urge you go on your journey of empowering yourself to create new boundaries for yourself in your life and with others as you develop and create the dreams and success you desire in you life. You will always be supported by someone on your journey...it starts with you saying 'Yes to You!" <br />
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There is no-one in the world who has the same fingerprint as you - and the world needs everyone to step up to become their greatest....Your day can start today!<br />
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More information about help with difficult relationships here:<br />
<span style="color: navy; font-family: "Palatino Linotype"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://difficultpeoplehelp.com/free-offer-3/" title="http://difficultpeoplehelp.com/free-offer-3/"><span style="color: blue;">http://difficultpeoplehelp.com/free-offer-3/</span></a> </span><br />
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<em></em>attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1894644748453927941.post-67813859582716741112015-08-07T19:27:00.002-07:002015-08-07T19:27:37.875-07:00Changing Your Thoughts from Negative to Positive If you let your mind, it will 'run away' on a journey of its own, with negative thinking about almost every topic in the world. <br />
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When one part of your brain start to think about making changes to improve your life, another part of your brain will think lots of reasons why you <u>should not</u> do anything different in your life. Thoughts like: <em>you can't, you're not good enough, it's scary, what if you fail</em> and many other excuses that halt your progress. <br />
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This is absolutely normal and a bit of a challenge It's one thought at a time that you are daily, minute by minute, even every second starting to control the thoughts in your brain so you can create the special unique person you were born to become. Gradually all the thoughts in your brain begin to mainly focus on these positive thoughts below. It doesn't happen overnight, but it does happen when you begin to learn this process. <br />
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Here's some famous people who have been on the same journey, you can embark on:<br />
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<li>John Assaraf (Top motivational guru & business man) Once hung out with gangs </li>
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<li>Louise Hay (Top motivational guru Owner of Hay House) Once had cancer</li>
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<li>Dr Joe Vitale (Top motivational/spiritual & business man) Once homeless & broke</li>
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<li>Oprah Winfrey (Top motivational TV presenter & more) Once abused</li>
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Everyone has a challenge to change their thoughts, it is up to you to learn to value yourself and relationships and daily take steps to create them your dreams in all areas of your life. <br />
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Here are three fabulous reasons to improve your relationships with difficult people which will make you feel better about yourself and your life. <br />
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Learning to create better relationships with these people is setting new boundaries for yourself. It's about saying Yes to you....while saying No to them. However, it's about using phrases and words that are empowering. It's not yelling and screaming, it's you learning to have the confidence, courage, understanding, right skill set to start to improve your life for you. <br />
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You are with yourself from when you were born and no-one has spent as much time with you as yourself. You will be with yourself until you leave planet earth, so why wouldn't you want to make sure you enjoy the rest of your life as best you are able. <br />
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Some of this starts will having a better relationship with yourself first and then with the other people in your life. <br />
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We all want to be loved, but we want to feel great in our relationships. <br />
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HAPPINESS: Your life is about creating your happiness.
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STRESS: Research shows challenging relationships causes stress.
Talking or thinking about these incidents your brain recalls the stress again
and because it’s one of the world’s biggest diseases it’s healthier to reduce
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Society has bought us up to think of other people are sometimes more important than us. Yes, that's true at certain times in our lives...however in personal relationships, you'll attract another person who is at the same level of thinking at yourself and you're unhappy, so are they likely to be. So, search for this person and be your own hero and have a healthy respect for yourself and your own life....before thinking a partner is the only person who deserves your love. You need to love yourself first...<br />
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found the right person – guy or girl<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Palatino Linotype";">Valentines day is a great day
to turn your attention to yourself. Sure if you’ve got someone you want to
swoon, that’s fine, but it doesn’t need to be a partner, you can have a great
day looking after yourself, enjoying yourself, having fun with friends or
family. Here’s ten tips <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Palatino Linotype";">Decide
you’re going to have an awesome day – no matter what!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Palatino Linotype";">Give
your body a treat – fingernails (maybe not guys), exercise, massage, <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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healthy – (after the ice-cream), nourish your body with healthy food versus
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something positive <a href="http://how%20to%20create%20a%20fabulous%20valentines%20day%20for%20yourself!/" target="_blank">Attitude Ecourse here<o:p></o:p></a></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Palatino Linotype";">Ultimately
remember, YOU are the most important person in your life. Put YOURSELF at the
top of your priority list and make sure you’re enjoying your life with
yourself. Follow my blog or FB for more tips. Most importantly (if there is such a word) have a great day!!</span></div>
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The fantastic opportunity is if you do not like what you are experiencing, you can take a different direction. <br />
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Over twenty five years ago, I chose a different direction. I have never regretted it and it was the best decision I have made, because I decided to create happiness and success in my life. Since then my journey has been up, down, side-wards, up, up, down, side-wards, up, up , up and constantly evolving. <br />
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Now ready to attract a huge amount of money for a movie I wish to create, I have dedicated myself and my life with added focus and attention to the Law of Attraction, Alignment, and continuing to re-read personal development strategies, from previous and new sources to enable me to do this. <br />
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Over the past 25 years I have learnt from people like: Brian Tracey, Rod Douglas, John Assaraf, John Kehoe, Oprah Winfrey, Deepak Chopra, Unity, Bob Proctor, Abraham and Esther Hicks, Joe Vitale, Ann Andrews, Marianne Williamson, The Secret and many others. </div>
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Using all of my resources I will be posting information on The Success Attitude facebook page and other pages to change my reality. If you want to change your own reality in 2015, follow along with the latest piece of inspiration that has inspired me and I'm sharing to inspire you and other folk who want something new, exciting and fabulous in their lives. EVERYTHING will be about changing the way you think, thus changing your reality. </div>
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2 Put a dent in the universe - Have a vision <br />
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3 Connect things to spark your creativity <br />
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4 Say 'no' to 100 things<br />
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5 Create Insanely different experiences <br />
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6 Master the message<br />
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7 Sell dreams not products. <br />
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Work away at this list and you'll be living a life with purpose!<br />
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attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1894644748453927941.post-35099097391347117522014-08-07T12:16:00.001-07:002014-08-07T12:16:54.375-07:00Why things happen??
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<span lang="EN-NZ" style="color: navy; font-family: "Palatino Linotype"; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-NZ; mso-bidi-font-family: "Palatino Linotype";">We don’t always know
why things happen. Disappointments and difficulties may never be explained. For
example, you may never fully understand why management passed you up for a
promotion or why a partner left you for someone else. No doubt there will be
times in your life when you are left scratching your head trying to figure out,
“Why?”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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is no understanding that “Why?” is very hard. Our culture places such emphasis
on finding answers. But, finding answers isn’t everything. Your life should not
stop when you don’t understand events. Instead, you must learn to let go.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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life. Regain your energy and passion. Let go of the frustration of asking “Why?”
and you clear the deck for a brighter future!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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attitudespecialist.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10285209601920886736noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1894644748453927941.post-10075692754715661562014-07-01T00:39:00.003-07:002014-07-01T00:39:14.120-07:00RISK Poem<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Palatino Linotype";">To laugh is to
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<span style="font-family: "Palatino Linotype";">To live is to
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column headed ‘others’ could be spiritual, community and project may be a big
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imperative you tap into your heart for this exercise instead of your head. Your
heart creates the magic in your life (makes you happy) then your head has to
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</span></span></span><span lang="EN-NZ" style="color: #ff3300; font-size: 14pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></div>
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<table align="left" border="1" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="MsoTableGrid" style="border-collapse: collapse; border: currentColor; margin: auto 6.75pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-insideh: .5pt solid windowtext; mso-border-insidev: .5pt solid windowtext; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt; mso-table-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-table-anchor-vertical: margin; mso-table-left: center; mso-table-lspace: 9.0pt; mso-table-rspace: 9.0pt; mso-table-top: 14.7pt; mso-yfti-tbllook: 480; width: 431px;">
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<td style="background-color: transparent; border: 1pt solid windowtext; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>10<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: windowtext windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: solid solid solid none; border-width: 1pt 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>10<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: windowtext windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: solid solid solid none; border-width: 1pt 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 54.85pt;" valign="top" width="73"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>10<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: windowtext windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: solid solid solid none; border-width: 1pt 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>10<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: windowtext windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: solid solid solid none; border-width: 1pt 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 41.45pt;" valign="top" width="55"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>10<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: windowtext windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: solid solid solid none; border-width: 1pt 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>10<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: windowtext windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: solid solid solid none; border-width: 1pt 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 37.5pt;" valign="top" width="50"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>10<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>9<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>9<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 54.85pt;" valign="top" width="73"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>9<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>9<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 41.45pt;" valign="top" width="55"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>9<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>9<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 37.5pt;" valign="top" width="50"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>9<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</tr>
<tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 2;">
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>8<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>8<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 54.85pt;" valign="top" width="73"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>8<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>8<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 41.45pt;" valign="top" width="55"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>8<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>8<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 37.5pt;" valign="top" width="50"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>8<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 3;">
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>7<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>7<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 54.85pt;" valign="top" width="73"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>7<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>7<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 41.45pt;" valign="top" width="55"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>7<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>7<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 37.5pt;" valign="top" width="50"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>7<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</tr>
<tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 4;">
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>6<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>6<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 54.85pt;" valign="top" width="73"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>6<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>6<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 41.45pt;" valign="top" width="55"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>6<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>6<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 37.5pt;" valign="top" width="50"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>6<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
</tr>
<tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 5;">
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>5<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>5<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 54.85pt;" valign="top" width="73"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>5<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>5<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 41.45pt;" valign="top" width="55"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>5<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>5<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 37.5pt;" valign="top" width="50"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>5<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
</tr>
<tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 6;">
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>4<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>4<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 54.85pt;" valign="top" width="73"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>4<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>4<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 41.45pt;" valign="top" width="55"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>4<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>4<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 37.5pt;" valign="top" width="50"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>4<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
</tr>
<tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 7;">
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>3<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>3<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 54.85pt;" valign="top" width="73"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>3<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>3<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 41.45pt;" valign="top" width="55"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>3<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>3<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 37.5pt;" valign="top" width="50"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>3<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
</tr>
<tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 8;">
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>2<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>2<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 54.85pt;" valign="top" width="73"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>2<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>2<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 41.45pt;" valign="top" width="55"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>2<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>2<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 37.5pt;" valign="top" width="50"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>2<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; height: 3.5pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>1<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; height: 3.5pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 45.9pt;" valign="top" width="61"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>1<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; height: 3.5pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 54.85pt;" valign="top" width="73"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>1<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; height: 3.5pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>1<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; height: 3.5pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 41.45pt;" valign="top" width="55"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>1<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; height: 3.5pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 48.9pt;" valign="top" width="65"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>1<o:p></o:p></span></div>
</td>
<td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; height: 3.5pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 37.5pt;" valign="top" width="50"><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-element-anchor-horizontal: margin; mso-element-frame-hspace: 9.0pt; mso-element-left: center; mso-element-top: 14.7pt; mso-element-wrap: around; mso-element: frame; mso-height-rule: exactly;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>1<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-NZ" style="color: #ff3300; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">
<span style="color: black; font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">
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<span lang="EN-NZ" style="color: #ff3300; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span lang="EN-NZ" style="color: #ff3300; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"></span></span></span> </span></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="color: #ff3300; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"></span><br /></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-NZ" style="color: #ff3300; font-size: 14pt;"><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">
</span><br />
</span></span><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="color: #ff3300; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span lang="EN-NZ" style="color: #ff3300; font-size: 14pt;"><o:p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-NZ" style="color: #ff3300; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">
<span style="color: black; font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">
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<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;"></span><br />
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;">Your
areas where you have the rated yourself the highest marks, are the area you’ve
had the most successes. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;">The
areas with the lower marks are the areas of your life where you need to focus
your goals. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;"><o:p>T</o:p></span><span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;">he
successful areas make you feel like a winner (and you are) the other areas make
you feel like you’re a loser (which you’re not) you just haven’t achieved your
goals in that <st1:personname w:st="on">par</st1:personname>t of your life YET!
<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;">You
have <em>free will</em> so you can do it, if you choose. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;">As
the author of <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">How to get what you want in
life and create success,</i> and also a presenter on the new DVD True Happiness,
I have had to recreate a happier, more purposeful personal and professional
life. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;">It
is a challenge but worth the effort to become your greatest. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;"></span><br />
<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;">Believing
in yourself and overcoming your challenges gives you the confidence to move out
of your comfort zone, and move onwards and upwards in your life, to happier
times that you are experiencing this moment in time. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span lang="EN-NZ" style="color: #ff3300; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;"><strong>As Nike says: JUST DO
IT!<o:p></o:p></strong></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></div>
<em>If you want more help with learning about your values to set your goals along with tools and techniques that will help you succeed visit </em><a href="http://www.attitudetrainingforyou.com/"><em>www.attitudetrainingforyou.com</em></a><em> or check out </em><a href="http://www.thesuccessattitude.info/"><em>www.thesuccessattitude.info</em></a><em> for details about individual coaching or email </em><a href="mailto:Janice@attitudespecialist.com"><em>Janice</em></a><a href="mailto:Janice@attitudespecialist"><em>@attitudespecialist.com</em></a><em> with your queries.</em> <br />
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<em><strong>If you would like this in PDF format email </strong></em><a href="mailto:Janice@attitudespecialist.com"><em><strong>Janice</strong></em></a><a href="https://www.blogger.com/null"><a href="mailto:Janice@attitudespecialist.com"><em><strong>@attitudespecialist.com</strong></em></a> </a><br />
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<span lang="EN-NZ" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></div>
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